Book A Session With Jill Valenti
I offer one-on-one private family counseling and engaging speeches designed to shift a family’s attitudes and behaviors from being problem-oriented to solution-oriented. I empower parents to use pro-active practices and tools so everyone benefits.
Want an effective professional parenting coach and educator in your life who is passionate about bringing out the best in you as a parent?
Want someone in your life who cares about helping you do a better job of taking care of yourself and those you care about?
We begin by getting clear on what you feel your greatest parenting challenge is and how you want to feel as a parent. We then work out the next steps to take to resolve your child’s ongoing behavior problems. I meet with your child on their own “turf” which powers through a lot of resistance. We work together with your family’s inherent strengths to realize your goals. You will feel great as a parent being proactive instead of reactive about everyday issues.
Book a Free Discovery Session-a one hour free phone consultation to get clarity about what your first steps will be to address the challenges your family faces.
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Individual or Couples Counseling
We will begin by focusing on what you really want to get out of counseling. For example: Do you want to feel more at ease in relationships? More accepting of yourself? My solution-oriented approach will compassionately support you to find “your edge” and go beyond it. I support and guide you to have what you want, to realize desired change, to learn, gain and grow or to ease stress and feel free to be uniquely you.
Book a Free Discovery Session-a one hour consultation to get clarity about what your first steps will be to address the challenges you face.
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How I Work With Families
I am Not Problem-Focused; I am Solution-Oriented
I train parents to capitalize on their strengths and their children’s strengths far more than they have before in order to resolve problems in a mutually beneficial way.
Mutual Respect Is The Way
I have discovered that all family issues, behavior problems or breakdowns can only get resolved when mutual respect between parent and child is present.
What’s Unique About My Approach
I am a professional friend — something missing in most kids’ worlds — and I meet your family on your own turf, which tends to create affinity with the children and get past a lot of resistance or anxiety.
It’s All In The Set Up!
I am strategic; I believe that “It’s all in how you set things up”. I have a stance that the parents I work with learn how to be proactive, not reactive. Being less reactive with their children makes parents feel less stressed about their parenting, plus parents feel more confident about their parenting which makes them feel even less stressed.
I Am Results-Oriented
I work with parents in a way that has you successfully move step by step toward your ultimate goals and cross the bridge from where you are now to where you aspire to be, starting with your already existing competencies and building on your current top priority commitments.
Follow Through – I’ll Show You How
I train parents to be extraordinary at follow-through which is one of the most potent life skills there is to have as a parent. The added “wow” factor is that in having extraordinary follow-through you are modeling for your children a prized life skill!
Are YOU Committed to Outstanding Results for Your Family?
As a parent working with me you can successfully move step-by-step toward your ultimate goals, crossing the bridge from where you are now to where you aspire to be.
I have to warn you — don’t work with me unless you are craving a big change in the situation and in yourself. If that is what you want, then you will get it from me.
I have engineered family transformations again and again with my own family and with countless other families who are my clients. Anything less than achieving outstanding results has proven to be dissatisfying to me — and to the children and the parents in my client families — so I am committed to going for the highest ground attainable.
My only interest is in helping you achieve what you want — what would have your family feel good by attaining the results you desire in your situation. Through working with me you will discover what your family is already doing that is workable, now and in the future, and what you don’t yet know as a parent that will make all the difference to your family thriving!